Multi-penetration: too much!

Due to the non-desire to deal with intricacies of relationships and logistics, I have only one sex partner. Don’t let the title mislead you. My husband and I don’t want to involve others in playtime… too messy, always thinking: who will be top, what positions we wanna play with, do we trust each other, which relationship is primary, blah blah blah. Too much for me. But, for me sex is all about connection, intimacy, soul. Okay, passion is a great component, too, but I can’t just fuck anyone because I am passionate.

Little disclaimer aside, I was hot and bothered by some sexual-stimulation videos online and had the fantastic notion that I wanted to be penetrated in all three holes. At once. And my husband should be in my mouth because I don’t like the taste of silicone. He went along with the notion, getting the medium and big butt-plugs, the jackrabbit, and the water-based lube.  He slid the medium butt-plug into my eagerly awaiting ass. It wasn’t very satisfying… I begged for the big one.  He grinned, calling me his “good girl.” He told me to take it in my ass, praising me for how well I was taking it in, how quickly and easily my ass swallowed the toy.

I laid on my back, keeping the buttplug firmly in my ass. He climbed atop of me in the classical 69 position, thrusting the jackrabbit in my wet and wanting vagina. My lips came up to wrap around his penis. He turned on the moving beads inside the toy on medium-high and I squirmed with pleasure. I licked my husband’s glans. I slid my tongue down the shaft to the scrotum, and back again. I took his entire 7+ inch penis deep into my throat. He turned on the clitoral stimulator, to a setting that moves from gentle to intense vibrations.  My husband propped the vibrator on a pillow and shifted so his hands reached my breasts. He pinched my nipples and I screamed around his penis. We continued this for a short handful of minutes and…Too much!

I had him remove both toys, shivering with edge-of-orgasm intensity. We assumed the missionary position. I orgasmed almost immediately, then was on the rise again as he pushed rapidly towards climax… We both came so strongly that we fell asleep shortly after.

We tried again another night, this time just double-penetration with my husband in my ass and the jackrabbit in my vagina. Again, I couldn’t take it very long before we had to switch to single-penetration vaginal sex. (Partially in fear, I have heard that the anus can tear during orgasm if a man tries to remove the penis, or continues to move it back and forth… fact?)   Sadly, I didn’t orgasm just from the vaginal sex, but my husband enjoyed using the jackrabbit in my vagina (and silver bullet on my nipples) to bring me to a spine-shuddering climax.  Despite taking so long, he seems to really enjoy playing with me like that. Makes him hard, turns him on…

I would like to pursue more multi-penetration, anal-including sex. Oral and vaginal doesn’t seem to bring me so close so quickly… but somehow the addition of anal stimulation makes it suddenly too intense.  I also have this fear of damage: the membranes and skin of the anus can be torn if moved wrong if a penis or object is pulled out too roughly, or suddenly. I don’t want to hurt my ass…  Anyone have some feedback or thoughts? Please comment below.

Erotically yours,

~Remi

Growing and learning

So, apparently anal stimulation is different between fingers, toys, and a penis. The toy didn’t work so well at first (hence my previous post). We got another that didn’t work so well, either.

However, hubby really wanted to fuck my ass. So, pre-shower, we decided to give it a chance. Without a condom, since we were in the bathroom and could just wash off if we swapped to vaginal sex. He started just by rubbing his penis along my anus. Then, putting the tip in and rubbing… eventually, he started to push in. At one point, it definitely hurt. I made him stop moving, and suggested he hold still while I pushed back at my own comfort level. It worked.  He really enjoyed fucking my ass. However, kneeling on a laminate floor didn’t work so well. We moved to the bedroom. Where he inserted our mini-butt-plug in my anus. We got into missionary position (to keep the butt-plug in). The double-penetration was actually not horrible. It was unusual, and I am not sure I like it yet, but it is progress.

We also decided to try him having the butt-plug in, and getting into the reverse-missionary position. He really seems to enjoy it. I get a good number of moans and gasps every time I move my hips. He even grabs my rolls/love handles and tries to direct my motion. He loves when I reprimand him, telling him to put his hands down. I will move at my own pace. It is a fun game, but we can’t do it for too long…

Being a bbw, and totally sexy to my husband, is great, but the weight makes it harder to be on my knees/wrists for too long. *sigh*  Maybe, for health reasons, I should lose some of the weight… hubby supports me, but begs that I not get rid of my curves. Gotta be curvy, but healthy.

And we need to investigate this anal play some more… And the “Anal Trainer” kit we got with three anal plugs (increasing in size)… Sounds like some fun in the future. 🙂