It has been a very eventful first month and a half of 2015. I have been crazy busy, so time where both of us are up for sexcapades has definitely decreased. We recently had a great one, though! I thought I would post about it.
As you guys know, anal play is not quite what we are into often within this household. It does work sometimes, though. Usually I am the one catching the play and the more passive player. I admit, light BDSM (probably barely counts) is something we are into – ropes, light smacking, nipping, teasing, being “aggressive” or being “in charge” can be fun… It is typically more of power-play wherein the balance shifts slightly so hubby gets to be in a more dominant role and do as he pleases, but not so far that I don’t get to have some say, or vice versa. We don’t do blood or bruises, and stop immediately if we ever feel wrong, off, or genuinely frightened (this happens sometimes). I don’t know if it counts as BDSM, though. Maybe just kinda rough sex. With some role play. I don’t know. Maybe someone well-versed in BDSM could tell us, but we don’t know anyone to ask (and I don’t exactly want to just ask anyone online).
During this last sexcapade, I decided I wanted to hear him beg.
He was sitting in his computer chair when I decided to pull his shirt almost off, then flip it over the back of his chair so he was “tied” to the chair. Then I knelt in front of him and unbutton his pants.Once he was exposed, I took his penis and started gently stroking it. Lowering my lips, I kissed the glans, then started running my tongue along the length of his shaft. Then, wrapping my DDs around his wet, slick cock, I started rubbing him up and down, telling him how he must be awfully aroused. His penis got harder as I did so. After it was nice and wet, hot, and hard. I stood up.
I moved myself atop of him and slid down his cock. We both moaned with the pleasure of it (it has been a bit). As I started moving up and down, he started to try and lick my nipples. I was having none of that. I told him he hadn’t been good enough for that, he had to just sit there and let me do what I want. I teased that I should “punish” him, moving so only the tip of his penis was just barely between my labia. I started to stroke my clitoris, still only allowing the tip of his penis inside. I think it excited him more that he was being denied pleasure while I was so obviously getting mine. After a while, I was riding him again. Only for a bit, though. It is kinda hard for this Big, Beautiful, NDN Woman to straddle him and the chair, then fuck, for very long.
We moved to the bedroom, were I promptly tied his wrists to the headboard and placed a towel down to catch drips (common practice, as we don’t want to change sheets daily). As he lay before me, inspiration struck. If I was going to be the dominant one, I was going to have my fun. What I wanted to see was him squirming in pleasure as I penetrated his ass with a toy.
As communication is key, I checked if it was OK. This is where I feel we differ from what I often hear as the rules of a scene in BDSM – we can break, temporarily, at any time to negotiate new terms or ideas. It does not detract from the mood, the “scene,” or the fun. I asked him if he would be in the mood, explaining exactly what I wanted to do to him. Good for my mood, he agreed. So he rolled and exposed his ass to my tender care.
With lots of water-based lubricant, I eased the small glow-in-the-dark butt plug into his eager ass. He was gasping and moaning quite satisfactorily. I asked how he was doing, and he made a little moan of delight. I asked if he wanted more, and he said he wasn’t sure, but was willing to try. So I eased out the little one, and got out our mid-sized butt plug. I lubed it up, slowly inserting the tip into his waiting ass. Not sure how quickly to move (as it was our first time using anything bigger), I told him to show me if he wanted more by pushing back on the toy. He obliged and I was rewarded with many gasps and wrigglings of pleasure.
After it was entirely in, I laid him on his back and wiped my hands. He had left a large spot of pre-cum on the towel. Returning my attention to him, I started running my tongue slowly along his shaft. His hands still tied to the headboard, he couldn’t grab my head or shoulders to make me go faster. So he begged. I was in a mood to just eat it all up.
After a bit, I got a length of silk rope, tying a harness around him to keep the toy in his ass and allow him to move around more without losing it. We were curious how it would feel for him to thrust into me while having the toy in. So I climbed on me knees as he knelt behind me. He was harder than usual, moaning much louder, too. His hips moved wildly as he rode the passion.
He came quickly. It surprised us both. Not being used to having anything that big in his ass, he was in a hurry to get it out. he felt the need to use the restroom, a side effect being penetrated, I think. So I undid the harness and had him relax as I gently removed the toy. After he used the restroom, I held him and made sure his body felt ok. I thanked him for letting me fulfill my desires. It was sweet.
Until next time, pleasant fantasies!